Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Bring on the Questions

March is Q&A Month here in our community. So if you have any questions you've just been waiting for the opportunity to ask, this is your chance. Ask your questions in the comments and we'll answer them here on the blog in another post.

And just because I'm a bit of a rebel (just ask Steve), I'm throwing out a question for you.

For those of you in a DD/TTWD/BDSM/whatever you label your relationship, what is your favorite moment to date?

For those who haven't made the leap yet, what draws you to this type of relationship?


  1. Well... my DD relationship has been going through some tough times recently so actually had to pause and think about it because its easy to get caught up in the troubles and forget the good moments. I would say a favourite moment was the night when we each discovered the benefits of the "good girl" spanking. It still makes me smile and blush to think about that night.

    My questions? If money or time weren't an obstacle and you had access to a private jet, where would you choose to travel to?

    Would you consider yourselves and your relationship kinky or more to the vanilla (with the obvious hand to bottom activity precluded)?


  2. Hey Dana...I can't say I had one favorite 'moment' in either one of my DD relationships...just the feeling of being loved and cared for. I know...not much of an answer.

    Here's my vanilla (maybe LOL) question for you...What four people (and their spouse/partner), living or dead, would you invite for an evening of drinks and dinner?

    Hugs and Blessings...

  3. Hi Dana K. My question for you is in two parts ........ who, other than your husband, knows intimate (partial or full) details for your marriage? and do you have any desire to be more revealed? Maybe not in your family and social circles, but maybe among a group of like minded people?

    My favorite moment to date in my FLM was one night, Mistress K. was going out with her friends and they all had the intention of getting drunk. My instructions while she was out to be showered, shaved, primped and ready to be used when she returned home. After showering, shaving and preparing myself for her arrival like some wanton slut waiting to be conquered, I sat and waited for her to return from her fun. During this time, I feel very hard into just the right corner of subspace. When she returned, she was ready to go the second she walked in the door. She put her purse down, ordered me to strip, bent me over the back of a chair and spanked me hard. Not because I had it coming, but because she just wanted to. Then she took me into the bedroom and made me give her a few orgasms before donning her strap on. She positioned herself on her easy chair in a way that allowed me to straddle her and lower myself onto her strappy. She required that I lock my eyes on hers while I slowly took her inside me. It was like I was a nervous young bride on my wedding night and the act was the consummation of commitment to my spouse. I had never been in such a deep, more beautiful subspace while I performed for her on that night. It was beautiful.

  4. My question is, what fantasy, that you and Steve share, do you think will happen and which one won't?
    My favorite moment to date is a real tough one, I think that when we really started to see the positive change in our relationship is what I think would be my favorite memory. I can be a rebel too and only answer the question how I want to answer it

  5. Hi Dana, my favourite moment would be when Rick gave me my vanilla collar (necklace). We had a lovely intimate ceremony.

    What did you first notice about Steve?

    Is there an implement you haven't tried and would like to?


  6. Hi Dana, I don't have one favourite moment but I think as ttwd has developed there have been times when I think how great life is, it sought of sweeps over me,
    Question, Is there one spankable offence you can't seem to help repeating ?
    Is there anyone in your real life who knows about your dd life?
    love Jan,xx

  7. Hey Dana,
    What is your favorite outfit from you whole life so far?
    If you could change the appearance of 1 thing in the world, what would it look like instead?

    As for our relationship, I have decided to label it TTDS (trying to do something!!) I am not exactly sure what it is we are doing, it is usually a rough start in our home no matter what we are talking about. We have a difficult time getting on the same page at the same time. What has attracted me to TTWD though is that I am a mess. I am that woman you have seen being obnoxious with her husband at the store. Well maybe not that bad but I think I have been pretty close at times. That is not the way I want to treat my husband nor do I want him to feel so very belittled. It is my hope and prayer that TTWD will give him a way to help me get myself under control so He can take control.

    Alice K.


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